BLOCKED WHY?

Sometimes people who are just finding their spirituality find that they have a block and wonder why, there can  be many reasons for this but i have found over the years while i have been doing this i have always had a block when things are happening in my life by a block i mean not being able to communicate with spirit or feeling spirit have left you . when things are happening in our own life and our energy's are being used to cope with everyday things and problems you will usually find this is when the block will occur of course spirit have never left you but you will be protected by your guides communicating with spirit can be very draining and takes a lot of energy from you and spirit, when we are ill or having to cope with things that are going on in our own lives our guides will protect us and block or keep back if you like spirit so we can build our energy back up. over the years i have found i have stopped doing my spiritual work when i have been going through stressful times myself and i have needed to concentrate on helping me and others around me .I am often asked how do i just switch off well sometimes i don't have a choice and my guides will make me switch off and other times it is my choice when i have to get on with my everyday life, but i also like to think that spirit know when and if its ok and will be just as respectful towards you and your situations as they would have done in life  love and light

Guides and our life's path

Today i have been thinking about the path we all walk which is life's path . Everyone of us will hit bumps twists and turns on this path and we will all deal with them differently , i know in the past i have fell many times as i have walked and sometimes it has been a struggle to get back up and carry on but i know that sometimes i have been picked up and carried by my earth angels as you have heard me talk about earth angels before how these are people who come into our life's for maybe a hour a week a month or for years but help us along and keep us going also i believe our guides and our loved ones and our angels will do the same thing .as i have gone along my path i have made mistakes like everyone else because not one of us is perfect the mistakes i have made some small some really huge have all been a learning curb for me and i always say to my children you will make mistakes in life and some will be huge you might hurt someones feelings you might regret what you say and what you do but the thing you must do is learn from them and try not to make them again .I believe the mistakes i have made in my life the big and the small ones have led me to be the person i am today all the time when going through these hard times i have asked my guides and loved ones and angels to help and they have always come through so no matter how alone we feel here on this earth the thing i say to everyone is always remember we are never alone if we ask and try to listen we will get help when we need it and we need to look for the signs our loved ones our angels and our guides will let us know they are there if we look so for everyone who is going through one of these bumps these twists or these turns just sit there quiet and speak to those we cannot see or feel because they will be there and they will listen each and everyone of us has a guide and that's is what they do guide us the best they can through the bumpy road of life its just a matter of trying to open up and listening to what they say love and light

pets

pets  are also really good at picking up and sensing spirit they will let you know straight away when they are picking up something i can only speak for dogs and cats  but i know my lovely dog picks up all things when im doing a reading i always have my dog in the room with me he is my sense i know if harvey is not sure about who has entered my space then i shouldn't be sure when im doing my readings harvey at first will circle and walk about once then if his happy he will lie down and go to sleep there has been a time when harvey has growled and barked and as silly as this sounds then i know not to let that spirit into my space i think again pets have no prejudice to what they see or hear all they know to do is protect love and light

Our pets and young children how they sense

The lovely things about babies and young children is as far as spirit is concerned they have no fear babies and young children i feel can see spirit and talk to them until they get to the age of knowing ,people often say to me my baby was gurgling and pointing to the ceiling  smiling and playing  i know my children all seen spirit from an early age . My eldest child had an imaginary friend from an early age he used to make me cook dinner for him by extra sweets for him the works one night i was busy in the kitchen when my son then aged three asked me for dindins for his friend  so i said to him perhaps your friend would like to go and have dinner with his mommy and daddy tonight so my son toddled off into the lounge then a few minutes later he was back and he said to me but he said you are his mommy, so that got me thinking i said whats you little friends name and my son said his alan mommy (alan being my spirit baby) i was shocked as we had not talked about alan freely in front of my son as he was only young so i said to my son doesn't alan want to go home to his mommy and daddy tonight so off my son toddled a few minutes later he came back and said alan said your his mommy and he lives in the bedroom with you what more could i say ..My daughter also had an imaginary friend who she played with argued with and fought over toys with again when she got to four he just disappeared then when she was in her late teens she came into my room in the middle of the night she said she had woken up and a young boy was sitting at the bottom of her bed she said she was to scared to move until he spoke he said don't be scared its only me your brother im just looking after you .so sometimes if you hear you children and babies cooing and laughing then they might just be talking to our loved ones  love and light xxx

Just saying hello

Today was a special day for me i went to my moms grave to place some flowers and i tool my little grandchildren with me and as i stood there in the sunshine and watched as my little granddaughter picked daisy's and placed them in a vase and my little grandson played i was smiling then all of a sudden i felt my mom behind me watching the grandchildren and smiling with me as i walked away i felt what i thought was my hubby's hand patting and stroking my shoulder then i looked and seen he was holding my grandchildren hands and i knew it was my mom patting me and stroking my shoulder as she walked with me my mom my angel was with me today and i have not stopped smiling since love and light LOVE YOU MOM X

spirit do they get stuck?

people always ask me why do some spirit stay and some spirit pass over why do they get stuck here on earth i believe and think spirit can stay here but most do it by choice i think a lot of spirit can sometimes be kept here for because they are looking for something sometimes they just like to hold on to what they know i also believe that some spirit can get stuck in there time don't except that they have died therefore cant move on what can we do about this? if a spirit is causing unrest in the house or where we work etc well if you feel you have an unruly spirit there are a few things you can try first of all you can cleanse the rooms with a sage stick or smudge you can light white candles in the rooms (white is for purity and peace ) you can also confront the spirit acknowledge it there then ask it to leave .Not all spirits that are hanging around are unruly  some are for one reason and another stuck in there time when this happens they see everything like it was in there time when they was here and as weird as this might sound they see us as the intruders and cant understand why we are there ,when i first moved into my house every now and then a spirit man would barge past me on the stairs grunt at me then say what do you want after doing this many times i decided to try and speak to him he thought i was in his house and i was the intruder and he wanted me out when i explained to him that this was my home now and my family lived there and hopefully we could all live in the same house and he had to except this then hopefully we could all live there after i had said this i  stopped seeing him but i knew he was still there then one night about 6 months later i was lying on the floor with my young son my older son was in the chair and we were watching t.v all of a sudden i heard the man and he was shouting at me MOVE NOW he said and i remember thinking this is not good i still lay there then i heard him again louder and more urgent MOVE NOW GET OUT OF HERE for some reason i grabbed my to little ones and headed for the door just as we stepped out into the hallway i heard a massive crash and bang when i turned and looked into the room my big mirror had feel from the wall crashed onto the fireplace and a shard of glass about 2 foot tall was stuck in the carpet the exact spot that me and my son were lying i then realised my spirit man wasn't trying to scare me he was trying to protect and save me if he hadn't have told me to move me or my son could have been seriously injured or killed ,and im glad to say we have lived in peace ever since love and light

positivity negativity whats the effect?

How does positivity and negativity affect us in our day to day life,does negative energy really exist to affect us in what we do and think i have been asking myself these questions most of my life and for me the answer is yes .I  believe and i stress its what i believe negativity energy will always be around to pull us down at every opportunity so what can we do?. I  have tried to learn to look for a positive in every negative situation not easy sometimes i grant you but if you cant see the positive straight away i promise in time and if you look hard enough you will see one ,when my lovely mother passed away from bowel cancer at an early age i struggled for a long time to see a positive in that it took my strength and my faith for a bit and left me in a dark place but i had to find something positive to build on after grieving for some while i wanted not only for me( but for her and what she went through ) to find a positive and not let all the negative thoughts that her passing brought affect me as i knew she was now happy and with our loved ones then it came to me my moms cancer was a hereditary cancer up to now i have lost 5 people to the same cancer all my moms siblings but when my mom was diagnosed we as a family all had to be screened for the gene and was also offered a screening test to detect the same cancer now i have the screening every 3 years and hopefully if i do go on to develop that type of cancer it will picked up early and have a better chance of fighting it (bowel cancer is often known as the silent killer as symptoms don't show until it is advanced )but not only that my children will be offered the screening and the chance to detect it early sadly  my mom never had this chance but has left her legacy fro me and her grandchildren and great grandchildren this was the positive i held onto to get me through .I know in life sometimes looking for that positive can be hard and sometimes as i watch the t.v and see all the awful things going on in this world of ours i admit its hard to see any positive in what i see and of course i want it to change but i know i will not be able to change the world but maybe i can make my world easier for those who are in it and around me and if i can try and keep negative energy out of my life and try and help those i love do the same then hopefully in time it will pass to others and then negativity will get weaker and weaker so as i go about my everyday life and i come across negativity and someone will say something nasty or do something nasty i try not to act the same as them  but to say something positive in response and not let there negative attitude in fringe on me    love and light

Protection cleansing grounding

While i was out tonight doing my readings i had to explain to a lovely lady about protection so i thought i would share all with you .Protection is a must whenever you are working with spirit as i have mentioned before we need to protect ourselves from bad energies there are many ways you can protect yourself my favourite is to put myself my family my home in a bubble i fill my bubble with light bright white light then outside my bubble i put a silver reflective wall around me to reflect anything trying to enter after doing this for a period of time you will be able to either put yourself in your bubble whenever the need or keep up your protection all the time .meditation is another could way of adding protection and you tube do a lot of protection meditation  videos so look through and try a few and see what you feel comfortable with using white candles is good for clearing and also a sage smudge/stick for cleansing rooms incense sticks can also be used for this i find that if im upset or feeling negative the best thing i can do is ground myself you can do this through a grounding meditation {again loads on you tube}or sometimes i simply take of my shoes and walk outside on the earth and feel the ground beneath me sometimes we all need a little grounding and this is a simple way to do it so even if your feeling out of sorts kick your shoes off and go for a walk  love and light

readings

off for a night of readings hope they will be kind to me tonight i will let you know love and light

HAPPY BIRTHDAY XX

                           HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO A WONDERFUL LADY MOM AND FRIEND HAVE A BIG PARTY WITH ALL OUR LOVED ONES MOM MISSING YOU XXXX