Saturday, 29 December 2012

New Year

I hope you all have had a very merry Christmas i have noticed that there has been a lot of illness around this Christmas everybody seems to be falling ill with one thing or another so im hoping that the new year starts better for everyone . In the new year i will be writing more about our guides and angels and i am hoping one of my dear spiritual friends will write a piece on here telling us all how she came into her spirituality and how her journey has been so far (That's if i can work out how to add her work on here i am still very new to this blog lark so if anyone knows how to do things like that please let me know and help me out i will be eternally grateful x) . I wish you all health and a very happy and peaceful new year ......... god bless

Sunday, 23 December 2012

Thursday, 20 December 2012


All those who have read my blog have heard me talk about baby charlie the little boy of 2 years old who is fighting for his life against cancer the sad news today is that baby charlie is today losing his fight he has been sent home from hospital to be with his family and to be comfortable so i am asking all the people who have stopped by this blog to join me in prayers for a miricle for this little boy and his family and to find some peace at this very sad time ............ god bless xxxx

Friday, 14 December 2012

Prayers for all the family's who have suffered such a tragic loss today in America may our angels wrap there wings around  you xxxxxxx

Thursday, 13 December 2012

happy christmas

hello everyone i have not posted for a few days what with the holidays coming and having a nasty cold i just have not been up to it but i would like to say thank you to everyone who has took the time to read this i would still love some comments and feedback so please feel free to do so , well i have some exciting new things coming up in the new year if i choose to follow that path and of course i will keep you posted and up to date with my continual journey . remember that even though this is the season of joy and happiness some people out in our world are alone at this time of the year and it can be a time of sadness if we can try and remember all those less fortunate than us and for all you who are missing there loved ones remember just because we cannot see them does not mean they are not there they will be there filling you and your home with happiness and peace so i wish all of you a wonder full Christmas and a happy and peaceful new year ........ god bless

Monday, 3 December 2012

when you awake spiritually

Well for those who have been following you will have seen me talk about my daughter and how she is at the beginning of her spiritual journey and low and behold she is experiencing problems because now she is starting to see spirit all the time this is of course natural and its how you deal with it that takes practise as i have explained to her now that she is awakening spirit will try to contact her because they know she can see and in no doubt in time t she will be able to hear them so god bless spirit they will try to contact others through her she at the moment is finding this hard to cope with her energy is being drained and she is experiencing headaches the trick is learning to close you channels and being able to carry on normally and using your gift so that it suits her and them i think this is where it can become emotionally draining and tiring learning all the new things that are happening to you and learning how to deal with them she has asked me to speak to them for her and explain at this moment in time she doesn't know how to cope with this 'this is a very normal reaction to have and it can be very overwhelming and it needs time to become part of you .I will continue to help and guide her i will show her protection and grounding and how to speak to her guides and ask them for protection and guidance , anyone who is awakening spiritually will go through all sorts of problems as they continue to learn and adjust to there gift and like i have said to my daughter i have been going through my adjustment for nearly 40 years and continue to do so like everything we do we are always learning and growing...............god bless

Saturday, 1 December 2012

A childs blessing

Well hi everyone i thought i would have to share this with you as not only is it part of my spiritual journey but also my daughters my daughter is 20 but i have known for many years since she was a child that she was like me and had the ability to see and communicate with spirit when she was younger she had a imaginary friend and would talk and play with him by what she was telling me i knew it was my son who died before she was born as she went through her childhood she would tell me things she could see i never discussed my spirituality with as with all my children i wanted her to find her own path and also dare i say it but have what was considered to be a normal mommy as she went through her teens her seeing spirit seemed to stop but when she was about 15 she came to me and said she had seen a young boy sitting on her bed she said she was scared but then he spoke to her and told not to be scared he was her brother and he was always there to look after her i explained she had the gift to be able to see and talk to spirit she did say to me she didn't like it and was scared of it as time went on she learnt what i could do and that i did reading for people and passed on messages from spirit world to loved ones here on earth she excepted it but didn't want any involvement in it which i respected but we would talk about it from time to time,then last year she saw a young girl who was connected to someone she knew after describing her to her friend her friend couldn't believe she had described her best friend who had died years before she had met my daughter again i sat down with my daughter and told her not to fear her gift but she still seemed reluctant to embrace it then last night my daughter had a visit from a spirit man she could see him as clear as day and described to me what he looked like and what he wore now is the time she is starting to embrace her gift i explained that spirit knew she could see and hear them and they just want to communicate with her they wont hurt her and its a gift that she want ever lose and cant turn her back on because in all honesty they want let her she has mentioned it to a couple of friends one who said she cannot be normal i told her she has to get a thick skin not to be ashamed of who she is and to see what she does as a beautiful gift and never a curse like i have said before i feel everyone can become spiritually enlightened if they are open to it but a few have no choice and are born into it and have to learn to live and except that they are who they are and have been chosen to have this wonderful gift. When i was younger i struggled with my gift times were different then and it was not so excepted as it is today i had no one to talk to or no one to share my thoughts and fears with my daughter will always have me who has been there and lived with it i will teach her how to except and handle her gift i will teach her about protection and grounding i will guide her as best as i can but i also know her spirit guides and higher beings will protect her help her and guide her as well i know she will go far with her gift she was my angel child my gift as i was told i would never be able to have anymore children then i conceived her and after 3 boys and 4 miscarriages i had my little girl my miracle girl i knew she was special and now its been confirmed .................godbless

Thursday, 29 November 2012

H i everyone hope everyone is keeping well and warm well with the holidays about to hit us i tend to slow down spiritually as i get more busy with the preparations . i will finish my last private readings next week then take a break until the new year , that's not to say i wont get spirit coming to me and will probably do some readings on the free site i am a member of . Remember everyone this is a special time of the year for our world and spirit world so don't be surprised if you start getting signs from spirit who want to say hello and i love you the signs are always there if you open up to them . This whole year has been a very important year for everyone spiritual and a lot of changes are about to happen for those of us who have spirituality in our lives we will begin to see how the world is changing around us and hopefully be able to prepare for the changes ahead there has been so much going on in our world that it has been hard to keep up with all the things that have been going on and the month of December is a important one .For all those growing with there spirituality now is the time to do more meditation more protection and grounding and start to listen to your inner voices help spirit world communicate with you let your angels and guides help and guide you welcome them in ,take time to reflect and look back at the year . may next year bring more peace and hope i will be on here still filling you all in on my own spiritual journey (oooo i do hope i am not talking to myself keep safe everyone and god bless xx

Monday, 19 November 2012

The unexpected

Hi everyone  i hope you are all well  and  had a good weekend well mine was certainly interesting just when you think you are going away and doing something really ordinary it always turns out different .This weekend i went down to torquay for the weekend to my nephews wedding  we stayed in a hotel which to be truthful was old but i didn't think that old once settled into the room we went down to the bar to meet  our family and share a drink while i was walking down i did sense quite a few spirits around  after spending a couple of hours with family and friends we decided to go to bed as i have a bad back condition i was in a lot of pain from all the travelling and needed to rest .after settling down for the night i soon realised i was not going to get any sleep at all that night for two reasons one i was in a lot of pain and two there was two spirits in the room with me the one was no trouble at all they would wander in and out and i guessed they were reliving what they used to do and were probably happy there when they were on earth , the other one was a different story they was kneeling in the corner and chanting prayers he had his back to ime and no matter what i said or did he totally ignored me but continued to chant over and over again  there was something about his presence i didn,t like so after a whole night of pain and not being able to sleep because of my room mate i got up in a foul mood and was full of negative energy i also had a wedding to go to on no sleep at all and knew i would.NT look my best so after snapping my hubbys head off i decided to go or should i say hobble down for breakfast i sat having breakfast feeling really sorry for myself and when i was returning to my room i passed a lovely old lady sitting in a chair at once i knew she was spirit and i knew she knew i could see her i smiled and nodded and walked passed and attempted to hobble up the stairs when she spoke  oh dear lovie she said you look like you are in so much pain go and have a rest and sort out what you need to do you know what that is i turned and smiled and she vanished when i got back to my room i made sure i cleansed it said prayers around it and added loads of protection i also made my presence felt in that corner of the room , after a lovely wedding and a good night we returned to the room and that night had a sound and undisturbed sleep he never returned and as i walked around the hotel i seen and sensed many spirits doing there old thing but i stopped and thanked the little old lady for talking some sense into me ........godbless

Thursday, 15 November 2012


This is charlies facebook page please follow the link and have a look and read his brave story god bless                                

Help save Baby Charlie Harris - Beard   i  am following this brave brave little boy who comes from my home town in the uk he is suffering from leukaemia and has had a lot of treatment chemo etc and fought it all the way sadly yesterday the doctors told mom and dad there was nothing more they could do and they only have a few weeks left with little charlie i am asking all who read this to send healing to this beautiful boy and prayers for a miracle and hoping that the family can find help or more treatment in other parts of our world .........god bless

Tuesday, 13 November 2012

at times you are humbled

Sometimes you are put in places for reasons that don't make any sense to you at the time but some time later be it weeks months or years it makes sense to you . For many many years i could not come to terms with who i was i hid from it i got scared about it and i turned away from it so i know how hard it is to except and come to terms with your spiritual path, and sometimes now i struggle with what i do i know that when i am doing my reading nine times out of ten i am going to be seeing someone who is vulnerable and is seeking either comfort or answers i always try and tell people that i cant tell the future and sometimes i cant give answers but hopefully i will sometimes bring comfort and when i leave the people i have spoken to i rarely find out if they were happy with what i have told them i can only tell them what spirit give me to give them sometimes i can be with a person for a couple of hours sometimes i can give them the message in 20 minutes depending how strong there energy is  then there are times when i might come across someone where our paths have crossed and i have spoke to them when they have had troubled times  and this happened tonight when i was out doing some readings i met someone i had met a few years ago while she was struggling with things spiritually and i had spoken to her i don't remember what was said or why but i do remember them and when they spoke to me tonight they asked i remembered them and they said you changed my life i didn't react at the time because i was in work mode but later tonight i was truly humbled at what they said  and i am truly blessed that i have been able to help someone even though i maybe didn't recognise it at the time so that left me thinking and i have thought to myself tonight that there will be times i doubt myself there will be times i get tired and wander if i should carry on and there will be times that i think should is this what i am really meant to do and like i said for a long time i kept what i was hidden for fear of taunts ridicule and nasty comments but all i was doing was hiding the real me now i have come to except who i am i am comfortable with who i am and this is me all of me and if i bring comfort to one person if i can help to heal one person if i can bring a smile to one persons face if i can help one person i will continue to do what i do and i will continue to pass on the messages that lovely spirit give to me because i am who i am ............god bless

Thursday, 8 November 2012

Whenever i do readings i always try to explain to people that when i communicate with spirit it is never as black or white as when i am talking to people here on earth it takes a lot of energy from me and spirit to try and communicate and though i can hear them i can sometimes only hear bit and pieces one word or one phrase they are a energy and they try hard to communicate with me but it never like here on earth sometimes they only can give me pictures in my minds eye or summon enough energy to say one word there are times if spirit has a good strong energy and we have a good connection that they will be able to talk fluent to me and i can see and understand everything they are saying but sadly this is not often and believe me its not like whoppi goldberg in the film ghost i wish it was lol , that's why i am always saying i can only give you what they give me and its for you to make sense of and not me because i know that if spirit have summoned enough energy to come through to me they will only give me things that mean something to their loved ones and what they will be able to make sense of and i am just the messenger there to pass it on . When i do one to one readings i like to have a object or something the person has been wearing or has handled i find this builds up a stronger connection to there loved ones and i can use their vibes when i do my readings on the free spiritual site i am i always ask them to post a picture again this helps with the connection but of course this is harder even though i do like to work on my spiritual site and reach out to people that otherwise i wouldn't have come across doing one to one reading will always work best for me for many reasons i like the one to one connection also its always nice to see how i have touched someone with a reading and to see it with my own eyes .So remember if you ever visit a medium of any sorts they can only do so much and its not like you and me chatting be patient remember to stop and think about what they are telling you and  also remember that even though you sometimes want so much a message from you special loved one  when spirit know you are there they may well come through with messages that you can pass on to other members of you family or friends so always stay open and try and think it will come to you....................... god bless

Wednesday, 7 November 2012

Last night i was having a chat to a good friend of mine who is on her own spiritual cusp and to her own admission is still learning so much she asked me a question what do i always attract these people ? .I have spoken before about our intuition and good and evil and i am often asked if i believe in evil to which i always reply i don't believe i know and evil can come in all guises and at all times anybody who says to me i don't believe in this good and evil thing i ask them two things A. do they know people who are as good as gold have they been helped out by in the most unexpected way have they had someone when they most needed them would they consider these events good and B/.this is a simple one really take a good look at the world we live in then tell me evil doesn't exist.As you know from reading my blogs i believe we all have the ability to communicate with our loved one if we are open enough but of course as with everything else we do we have to learn how we can do this sadly evil is a good mimic and sometimes will come to us in the guise of our loved ones or someone we know so of course when we embark on becoming open we must protect ourselves and be safe we have to learn our protection and grounding we have to learn about our guides and guardians and about our protectors who will do there up most to keep us safe so of course we have to put time and patience into learning all this and when i was young i knew nothing about this spirituality was very much a taboo subject so i found it hard to meet like minded people but thankfully we have moved on a lot and spirituality is now much more accepted ,plus as i said i knew nothing so of course that led me to being open and not protected to which i encounter things to which i wish i hadn't ( but that's another subject i will speak about at a later date and share with you  ) but i know the one thing we all have is our intuition i call it my spiritual radar and sometimes we meet people in our life who just are not good for us so when the question was asked why do i attract these sort of people i had to explain that you don't attract them you are a good kind honest person who see the good in everything and everyone and sometimes we come across sheep in wolves clothing and i can tell you there has been many a time i have come across someone who has come across lovely honest and kind and my spiritual radar has gone of and nine times out of ten i am upset that this has happened because i want them to be as what they are appearing to be i am never nasty or cruel or unkind i just distant myself a little and  watch and wait and eventually they will appear as they really are because they cant keep it up forever and i cant tell you how many times i wish i had been wrong so like i said to my friend last night if something deep inside starts to rumble your intuition spiritual radar gut feeling whatever you call it then listen to it because has you have found out it is very very rarely wrong and once you have learnt to trust your instincts you will end up less hurt and less disappointed .......... god bless
It has come to my attention that a lot of people have been trying to comment on the blog but cant at this moment i am trying to find out why but as i am not very technically minded this could take a long time and i am really sorry though i must admit i am relieved that i am not talking to myself if anybody would like to give me feed back good or bad i am very open to it so please feel free to e-mail at i would love to hear from you . my Internet has been down the last couple of days and i have had trouble logging on but hopefully i am back up and running and will carry on with my journey in the meantime ........god bless

Sunday, 4 November 2012

Strange days

today has been one of those days when you hear see things  that turn them into strange days again i have been hearing about mediums who either take advantage of vulnerable people or tell vulnerable people bad news both these things get me mad seeing or hearing about a medium who is driven by the colour of money really get me now I'm not saying that mediums should do all there readings for nothing some mediums pass on messages as a living and as a way of earning an income but what i do not like is watching and hearing about mediums who are driven not by giving messages from the spirit world onto loved ones but by how much money they can earn and how much they can improve there lifestyle by selling related items or related things that they endorse as there gift. Then there are the ones who think giving bad news or shock readings is a way of making them either look powerful and in the know or think its OK to scare people on this earth i am lucky enough to know quite a few  talented mediums who pass on messages and i know in the circle of mediums i know we do not pass on bad news like i have said many many times before i have not be given  many bad news messages from spirit i feel they know my feelings on this subject so therefore it would never happen i really believe it is not for us to pass on things that are not good and upset loved ones here on earth if we can help in any way with the things we are told from spirit there are ways we can do it without upsetting loved ones here , then today i saw a spoke to a little child that i knew already was developing the gift of talking ato spirit by what they told me a delight to see that they had no fear of what they had heard and was treating it like a normal everyday thing you go from being mad about what you hear to being delighted to what you see all in the same day hence making it a very strange day . may i just again express to people everything i write on here are my own personal feelings and my own personal experiences ..........god bless

Thursday, 1 November 2012

Hope you all have had a lovely Halloween i have had a lot of spirit around me tonight which you would expect tonight having a conversation on the phone with my sister when i started to hear a voice talking to me which sounded like my mom so that was a surprise i do sometimes get a little frustrated that i can talk to spirit strangers yet it is very hard to communicate with my own loved ones but as i understand they have there reasons for this. I have done some fabulous reading with spirit this week and i thank them for giving me some fantastic validation and as it is always nice to be told how good i am at what i do i really cannot take the credit one of the lovely people i did a reading for this week said to me i really know you was talking to my loved one you gave me there name there age and how and what they passed with its fantastic how do you do it to which i answered there really is no big secret to what i do they tell me things i pass them on to you they say it i say   it that's it i know sometimes i take what i do for granted i have always been blessed with this so to me its normal but i really am in awe of my lovely spirits when they come through to me and i ask them to give me really good validation not sketchy things but how did she know that things and they always come through for me and that's them not me and that's why i thank them i always say I'm like a postman i deliver the letters i never write them I'm just the messenger   ......... god bless

Tuesday, 30 October 2012

Happy Halloween

Remember everybody at midnight on Halloween its said that this when the spirit world and earth bound world become one and its easier for our loved ones to visit so here's hoping where ever you are that tomorrow night you let your mind and heart become open and listen and watch for your loved ones to come through remember to use your protection and check on the piece i wrote about protection i hope you all have a happy Halloween tomorrow i will remember a very special lady who left my life six years ago tomorrow so it was only fitting that a special lady left on a special day . i myself will be doing something special tomorrow  Halloween is a big holiday in the spiritual circle and world so enjoy and god bless

Friday, 26 October 2012

Oh it's good to be back

Well today i have gone back to doing my readings after taking some time off and boy have i missed it ,when I'm not working my mood takes a different direction i become down and feel like something is missing its not till i return to doing my readings that i realise what that is i am just not at one with myself unless i am working with spirit and this afternoon/ evening has brought that home to me i have had some fab spirit with me who in turn has helped me do some fab readings they never stop surprising me how good they are with the validation they give i always as for there name and they always come through this lovely lady i had with me today gave me her name her age and how she died which was fab for me and her loved one i love to see the joy on loved ones faces when they know i am indeed talking to there loved ones yes there are tears but usually tears of joy that at last they have contact and know they are safe it brings me so much pleasure it truly is a joy yes its good to be back and feel as one again .........god bless

Thursday, 25 October 2012

Take back control

Well had a busy couple of weeks with new baby and its been lovely but tomorrow i will be back working with spirit i have took most of October off knowing i would be busy with all the things that are happening in this month but i am looking forward to up coming events . while i have been resting and doing other things i have not shut down completely and have noticed unrest around me and have been warned from spirit world about negativity energy around me as i have said many times before if we believe in good we must also be open to believing in bad and i myself have had personal experience of this hence my beliefs i feel to be able to believe in things we have to be open to all elements and broaden our mind to the illogical , so for the last few nights i have been speaking to my guides and spirit and stenghthen my protection i myself pick up on neg energy straight away and can almost sense it around me so i become aware of what i need to do .Like i have said before neg energy can affect us in many different ways while we sense it and our mood changes with it we have to learn how to detect it and not to let it draw us into a vicious circle as soon as we let negativity into our lives it soon takes control and starts to effect our day to day living when one thing goes wrong before long everything goes wrong we become down and the world starts to look a darker place i know its very very hard when we all have times in our life when things seem to be on a downward spiral and we have to cope with all things that affect us be it grief loosing a job having no money getting into trouble with one thing or another our negative attitude starts to effect almost everything we do and at times it can be very hard to take back control and turn it around i know there have been times in my life where i have been in some very dark place and found it almost impossible to turn it around this is time we must ask for help be it from our angels our guides or our gods we must ask for help .I always find and the lowest points in our lives spirit will be there willing us on and trying to lift us back on our feet they will always be around us trying to help its just having faith in believing they are there so hopefully we can again get back on our feet fill our mind and thoughts with positive feelings and take back control i know this can be very hard to do so I'm asking anybody who may be reading this who might for one reason or another be feeling like things are just getting worse with no outlook on getting better just to take one moment of there time and place one thought in there mind of one thing that made them smile in there life one simple thought one positive thought no matter how small as long as its positive this is when we can start the process of taking back control where we can consciously be able to turn the negative into the positive where we can let light back into our minds and lives this is where we can change the path and take back control for as long as we are here we must always remember we can be in control of how we work it just takes practise and from one little thing big thing can grow ............ god bless

Wednesday, 17 October 2012

rest and reboot

Well i have really enjoyed the last few days and have really been blessed but i must admit that over the last few weeks i have not worked with spirit there have been many reasons for this one of them is that i have been busy helping my family and the other reason is that i needed to rest and reboot i do get upset by others op ions and when they attack things they don't know i find it hard when certain people do what i do and work with spirit yet think that they are above the rest of us and feel the need to critic others because they think it will be gainful for them the spirit world is big enough for us all and welcomes everyone ,well rant over and i am happy to say that i will be back communicating with spirit and passing there messages on next week . As a medium i do find as i have said before i get asked so funny things and i sometimes look around and ask for guidance to be patient and kind as some things i get asked can be beyond belief i am asked can i curse or throw curses well the answer is no i do not and would never as i believe in karma i always feel i never have to do anything but just get on with my own life as anybody who does anything to me or others will have to deal with there own karma and its not up to me to retaliate in any way another question is can i do magic spells again no i never trained as a magician and am never likely to its quite simple i am a medium i communicate with spirit and that's it  well i am going to have another few days of resting and rebooting and enjoying my family i hope anyone who pops in and reads this has a happy and restful few days and hopefully next week i will be able to share with you some more of my spiritual journeys     god bless .

Monday, 15 October 2012

angel blessing

Hi everyone im off for a few dyas while i celebrate the birth of my 3rd grandchild a lovely angel blessing   god bless

Saturday, 13 October 2012

walking among us

A lot of people think because i am a medium and i can communicate with the spirit world i automatically and  know instantly when spirit is among us well sorry to have to say this but I'm not always aware and i find that intriguing many a time i have been sitting on a bench or by a bus stop and not noticed straight away that i am in the company of spirit some people not everyone seem to have an idea or perception that spirit will come as a shimmery shape or float or see through or will be dressed from the 18th century and sometimes this is true but i also know that spirit can appear as alive as me or you . I remember a lady who  i respected as a medium told me of the saying walking among the dead she had a total different outlook on this saying and said to me do you know how often we all walk among the dead she said they say that whenever we are in a crowded place a shopping centre a theme park an event where there are hundreds of people that a percentage of those people will be spirit walking among us and we don't even know now without us touching each and every person we see in a big crowd how would we ever know i know that there have been times when i have been in the company of spirit and not known they were spirit times when i have been rushing or had my mind on other things i have been known to chat at a bus stop for 5 minutes to someone before realising they are spirit so the way i see it is its food for thought and i know every time i am in a crowd i always have a look round and wander and anyhow i hope her saying is true because i know one thing when i am gone i would love nothing more than coming back and walking among you and perhaps doing a little window shopping ...........  god bless

Friday, 12 October 2012

Intuition do we know?

The one gift we all have and yet almost all of us ignore is our intuition  whether or not we are spiritual we all have this built in hidden gift that comes from our soul learning to listen it is something we all have to do . How many times have we been in a situation and thought to ourselves i wish i had listened to myself because i knew, how many times have we known someone is wrong and we have felt it in the pit of our stomachs said nothing then it proved to be right . Our hidden gift our intuition can be a very good thing to have if we learn how to recognise it is the one gift we are all born with no one can explain why that even though all of us have the same heart brain liver etc yet each one of us are individual its the same that they cant explain why we have a inner voice trying to warn us and let us know things our intuition . i believe and i stress this is just  what i believe because hey that's me is that we all have this little bit of built in protection inside of us its what we start off with what we begin with our own little bit of unexplained spirituality but as we grow and overtime we stat to lose it we ignore it when we hear it in fear of  being wrong or looking a fool so we switch it of ignore it then kick ourselves when we knew we were right the secret is to stop fearing it and to start learning to use it again so just in case you want to and as a little experiment say why don't we all start to try and listen to our little voice, the next time we are in a situation and we start to get the symptoms of our intuition(these can be many things i feeling in the pit of a stomach a voice telling us we are right an overwhelming feeling of it being wrong) sit down take a few deep breaths and listen to what we are being told and try and follow our gut feeling once we are in tune with what we are hearing we can save ourselves sometimes a lot of heartache a lot of pain and a lot of i wish i had listened to my first instinct our intuition is a gift a gift we can all learn to use   god bless

Wednesday, 10 October 2012

my journey

Well not been here for a while and that's because i have had a strange couple of weeks sometimes you see things from all different ways and in all different lights you see people having bad times and then you wonder why i do believe that we are only sent what we can handle but sometimes people have an awful lot  to handle  , then you look at our world and see how many things happen in it and how cruel some people can be and you just don't understand it ,  so this week i have took some time out to do some meditations and talk to my guides and asked them to guide me in my journey once more . With the debate raging on about spiritual sites doing readings for free and if they are then they must be fake or at least Charlton's made me question my faith in the human race is it really so hard to believe that some people just like to help and comfort others if they can and are there really people out there who worry that by having these spiritual sites they will infringe on there business . I can only speak for myself as i always do yes i work private yes i work on a spiritual site for nothing no i have never trained do be a medium yes i have had my gift since i was a child and  no i don't doubt it i use it for only one reason that's to bring message from spirit to others here on earth i don't make a living from it nor do i ever want to i am who i am nothing more or nothing less its a shame that people cannot except things for what they are but i know in my heart that there is good people out there there are earth angels that work for the good all the time  and i also so know as my journey continues it will always be  ever changing forever interesting and sometimes a challenge   god bless

Wednesday, 3 October 2012

And the debate goes on

Well the debate is continuing from yesterday let me fill you in a respected and semi well known medium from here in the uk decided to place a warning on there facebook page yesterday about spiritual groups on facebook that give free readings and which basically said in not some many words they are all fake i took offence to this comment as i do work privately i also do work on a spiritual site and give readings to which i dont charge for she made a comment that these sites encouraged just anyone to have  a go as she put it well i know just as there are good and bad mediums there will be good and bad sites but please do not tar all the sites with the same brush i myself ( and i must stress this is my own opinion i see working on m the spiritual site as a way of me being able to give something back and use my gift as it was meant to be a gift what harm is any medium doing by offering there services for free answer me this is paying for a reading the only way to get a genuine reading  it  on the other hand are all free readings  fake, as i have said before i have been able to communicate with spirit from a young child no i dont have a diploma in medium ship i have not been formally trained and i have not joined any organisation who grant me the title of medium i am who i am i communicate with spirit i pass messages from spirit world to our world nothing more nothing less i let all my clients know my background weather paying or if i am doing it for free am i exploiting anyone no  i am not and yes i do take offence just because i do not charge for every reading  does not mean i am fake this medium went on to describe in detail how this lady had put a certain photo up then described the photo and had people tried to read her and she said no to all then she went on about privacy and splashing it all over facebook yet she had just described the pic yes this poor lady had put up and guess what said it all over her facebook page to prove a point double standards there i think the way i see and feel it is spirit world and our world are big enough to carry a lot of gifted people how they choose to give there services is up to them weather they charge or do it free or  a bit of both like me there is no need to start slandering one site from another people who join these sites should be all adults let them make up there own minds . My own personal advice i would give if anyone is thinking of joining one of this spiritual sites is  1. try to go from a recommendation 2. try to go for a closed or secret group 3 see if there is a waiting list 4.once on there sit and watch before posting anything any concerns report to the group admin any documents they have available all the mediums on there should have posted a document telling you about there background 6;if a trainee does the reading and you are not happy for them to do this dont be afraid to say .  I hope this helps   god bless

Tuesday, 2 October 2012

Is it right to tell ? ?

I have probably already spoken about this before but as this subject has come up twice in two days i feel i  its my cue to talk about it again and that is as a medium if i am told bad news do i tell the client well i can only talk about my experiences and what i do  those circumstances and what i feel is right ,when i pass messages on from the spirit world i always feel that i have to use my own code of ethics and when i first started i always said i would never pass on bad news now what i mean by that is that if i was told by spirit that something bad was going to happen to my client and nothing was going to stop it or nothing that i could do would prevent it happening then  i would say nothing, a question was put to me yesterday and that was if i was told by spirit that my client had a terminal illness would i tell them my answer yesterday was no i would not it is not my place as a medium or as a human being to tell somebody that information i just don't find that ethical , then today i was having a conversation with someone close to me who told me that a medium had seen someone very close to them 2 years ago and she told her that she would die before t Christmas that year  i could not believe what i was hearing how could someone in our profession be so cruel to tell someone that i have worked with spirit a long time and hand on heart i can say that they have never told me anything like that yes i have had warnings and i have known something not good was going to happen i have also known there was nothing in my power that i would have been able to do to stop the event and it was for me to know alone what that so called medium did to that person was scare her and leave her with negative thoughts is that being kind i think not . Like i have said many times i am not a fortune teller most spirits were not fortune tellers when they were on this earth and so therefore will not be fortune tellers in spirit i truly believe the future is not ours to know . i have been lucky that spirit have never gave me that sort of information i say lucky but what i believe is spirit would not give me that information . i always see message from spirit as a positive experience and not a negative they want to bring us good messages . as for the lady who may i add i was very close to as well no she never died before that Christmas she died the following October a week after being told she had terminal cancer i was only told about that visit from that medium today and it breaks my heart to think that she lived in that fear that she was going to die im sorry but i will say this its mediums like that that gives our profession a bad name and that saddens me    god bless

Monday, 1 October 2012

How do we know ?

  • Ok  so a subject came up today and entered my life on mediums who to trust and spiritual sites well i can only  talk from experience as far as mediums are concerned well i have always said as far as mediums are concerned always go with someone you feel happy with if for any reason when you first meet your medium or go and see them and straight away you feel you would not be comfortable don't be afraid i say anything if you don't your connection just wont work and if she or he are saying things that you just don't relate to don't be afraid  to say a good medium would prefer you to . As for the spiritual sites i myself do work for one and i know there are a lot of sites out there that don't veto there mediums that encourage anyone and everyone to have  ago and prey on the vulnerable but there are also a lot of good sites that veto there mediums and have only one wish to help people, they are also there to help anyone who is progressing or training and as long as they make this known  so what do you look for in a good site well this is only my op ion but i would say  1.go for a closed group   2.see if it has a waiting list this is usually a good sign 3.try and get a personal recommendation . When you have found your group look at the documents and see if the mediums have introduced there selves and said what they are about if not do not be afraid to ask and as with a group or a private one to one reading always get good validation  i hope this helps a little god bless                                              

Friday, 28 September 2012

Asking for help !

A question i get asked a lot can we ask for help from our loved ones our guides and our angels the answer i always say is well i do .I remember when i was a child i was bullied a lot at school the usual peer things i was from a one parent family following a divorce and money was tight so i never had the things the other children had add that to the fact that they did'nt quite understand my strange ways made me an easy target and at times i would feel very lonely and out of the loop and i remember spirit talking to me telling me to hold in there and that in time things would change i was very young but i knew that they were around and would help which every way they could and there have been times in my life when i have called upon them again for help sometimes they have helped me in ways that i have not always  expected but they have helped no matter what you believe in your gods your angels you spirits yourself we are never alone and when we need help we usually find ourselves asking for it believe me if our loved ones our angels or our guides can help and they will try as long as it doesn't interfere with our path of life . When in time of despair or times of feeling very low when things look like they can only go from bad to worse or you have lost all hope please take yourself somewhere quiet as your guides to help you to go to your special place and then ask all your loved ones your angels and you guides to help and guide you so yes i do believe its ok to ask   god bless

Wednesday, 26 September 2012

Your special place

For all those who are growing spiritually  and for all those who need somewhere for peace and reflection i am going to talk about my special place this is somewhere i go when i meditate somewhere i go when i am tired and need to reboot and rarely somewhere my spirit guide will take me when he senses danger i am asking you to open your mind and comprehend something you may have thought never existed . I have a  place where i go to which is not of this earth i am lucky to have 2 main spirit guides i know one of them is my grandfather another is of a higher spiritual level that looks after my spiritual side now i can here some of you saying  ooooo shes a bit mad well again like i have said before it all depends on  what you believe in as you grow spiritually and you get to trust and know you guides this place will become more of a sanctuary to you . To find your place its all about being open try to start off look through and choose ones of the spiritual meditations on you tube then while meditating and controlling your breathing ask you guides to make them selves known and to help you find your healing place and see where this takes you always remember to use your protection bubble before you start and hopefully with practise you will be able to go to your own special place when in time of needing peace to reboot your energy and for protection also while in your special place you will be able to explore your spirituality more hope you try this in time its something you wont do without  godbless

Tuesday, 25 September 2012

If anyone want to discuss any subject or would like to know more about certain ones i have wrote about please feel free to ask i am always open to comments and questions  god bless

Take time out !

Well  i am feeling a bit better this week and having took some time out i am starting to feel ready to continue with my work.I always feel when working with spirit you need to be able to do it with a reasonable clear head like i have said before communicating with spirit takes a lot of energy fro you and them and if you are feeling under the weather or have a lot on your mind your channels will become blocked when things are getting to much for me and i have a lot on my mind or i am feeling under the weather i know it would be a complete waste of time for me for spirit and for my clients who i do readings for to try to continue on i would not be able to give them or spirit my full attention when i am communicating with spirit i have to concentrate so hard and focus on just what is going on at that moment in time, if i have other things on my mind or am feeling low it just wont work so i have no qualms about cancelling my readings and stopping my spiritual work for a while because we all need time out .Sometimes my conversations with spirit can be very sad and draining what they tell me can be sad and alarming sometimes that's just how it goes and i except that as well as having the lovely messages so i have to recharge anyone who is reading this and is progressing in medium ship remember its always good to stop and recharge and take time out if i did a normal charge whatever that is lol i would get holidays but in this work you tend to forget to take a break because spirit can be anywhere i even had one in butlins this year lol and yes i can switch off when i wont to but i find i am always willing to listen which sometimes can be my downfall like most i always try to continue to work so like i said i am feeling better and have more  readings booked in again from next week after talking a fortnight of so like i said remember no matter how you walk this life every now and again TAKE TIME OUT god bless

Friday, 21 September 2012

When is soon to soon ?

I have not had a good week this week and it has thrown me into deep though early last week i learnt that someone knew had lost someone very close to them and it was not expected of course them and there family are completely devastated then i  had spirit come to visit me they just wanted there family to know that they were ok and that they were still there with them looking after them i knew straight away i would not be able to pass that message on for a number of reasons and this has affected me deeply as a spiritual medium i am blessed to be able to pass on messages from spirit to there loved ones but sometimes very rarely there are times when i feel that the message at this moment in time would not help those left behind  its very hard when i am involved and know the people when i am doing my readings nine times out of ten the people i read for are strangers and they have come to me plus i am not emotionally attached . as i knew the people involved i knew that if i tried to pass on the message i was given it would cause more upset they have to come to terms with there loss they have to adjust and for a long time there will be a huge void in there life's and i knew at this moment in time any message i had to pass on would not be received well i explained this to spirit and i knew they understood what i was saying i also explained that i knew when the time was right they would speak to me and of course i would pass on the message and the good validation they had given me , but it still left me feeling hopeless with my work like any other part of our lives they are sometime some hard decisions to make have i done the right thing honestly i don't really know but i have to follow my instincts and do what i think is right at the time and sometimes even i momentally  wish i did something else god bless

Sunday, 16 September 2012


Im often asked the question and have asked it myself and that is why? why did they have have to go why them its just not fair and if i or anybody else had the answer to that question a lot of us left on earth who feel a lot more ease. What i believe is that when we are called it is our time and no matter what or how if its our time its our time we are walking a path and that path has already been set out before we even arrived here i know that it harder for those loved ones left on earth than it is for those that have passed with all the spirits i have communicated with i can tell you the one message they always want to say first is we are alright we are happy and not sad i remember when my own mom was very ill she was very angry at dying and i worried that the anger who stop her from passing on to spirit world not long after she passed she came to me in a dream ( the only way i think i could have coped with seeing her at that time) and told me she was ok and to stop worrying ,its us here on earth who look for answers we will never be able to find and that's natural it all part of what we need to do to grieve but the person who has passed has already moved on from how they have died of course sometimes there is exceptional circumstances but overall no matter how they have died they just want loved ones to know they are ok and we here that's left have to grieve we have to mourn there loss so that we are able to move on so like i say to everyone who suffers a loss its ok to ask why even if you never get the answer first we grieve then we remember then we start to laugh again ,but rest assured our loved ones are fine xxxx

Friday, 14 September 2012

Things i see !

Most of the time i consider my gifts to be a blessing every now and then and i stress not often but on nights like tonight i wish i never had them not only do i communicate with spirit but i also know when things are going to happen and by things i mean not so good things i sense them and get a horrible feeling in the bottom of my stomach a couple of weeks ago we lost a kindred spirit another medium on the same day i heard of someone else i knew had also died when i heard of these i knew that in the next couple of weeks i would hear of another person that  would die. Last week i was drawn to a lovely girl i know so i viewed her profile on fb i knew instantly something was wrong i knew she had lost her dad all week i have worried and hoped i was wrong then a day ago i saw her dad in spirit world again i was praying i was wrong but tonight someone close to me has told me that yes she did lose her dad last week i know this lovely girl and i know how close she was to her dad and i can feel her pain i also know that nothing i say to her at this time will comfort or help her so i feel useless i know dad is fine and he is healed and he has been reunited with his daughter that im sure of but my heart goes out to this lovely girl and her family .so sometimes when you have a gifts like these its not all roses and light and like everything else in our lives i have to take the good with the bad just sometimes it sucks    love and light

Little signs

I was doing some meditations last night and had a spirit lady come through to me and elder lady who wanted nothing more than a chat when i asked her if she wanted me to give a message to anyone she said not really duck just thought a chat would be nice i mean how lovely is that so we had a chat she was a was a lady who just liked to chat and then  today i was in the doctors waiting room while i was waiting for my hubby and this lady about the same age as the one who had visited me last night sat by me and started chatting she told about her life and i listened and laughed at her stories and when hubby came out i said i have to go now here's my hubby and as i got up to leave she took my hand and said thank you for chatting is lovely to have someone to speak to and i knew that today i was meant to chat to that lady and spirit had come the night before as a sign and i thanked her because she reminded me sometimes people just want to have a chat with another person and that can make them happy we are given signs by spirit all the time to make us think to make us grateful for what we have and to remind us to be kind to one and other thank you spirit love and light

Thursday, 13 September 2012

Wednesday, 12 September 2012

How did i/do i cope with disbelievers

When i was younger i soon learnt it was better nor to say what i saw and heard i was already considered to be strange and  those friends i did tell and confide in well they were children and not to good at keeping secrets and i was soon being called names and bullied i was known as a bit of a dreamer at school and teachers often said i was often away with the fairies lol well they were nearly right the one subject i did like was history and always completed my homework because i always had help lol .As i got older i found it was easier for me just not to say anything so i kept a lot in all through my late teens up till my early twenties but i still felt and heard the odd comments believe me i have been called a lot of thinks from being loopy to being a witch to other things that was a lot worse of course it upset me and at first i kept everything about my spirituality to myself . what people don't realise is that spirituality goes a lot deeper than just communicating with spirit it is your body and your soul and if one is out of balance the other is affected its took me till now which is nearly 50 to come to terms with my spirituality to enjoy it and to love it to accept who i am . I do not expect anybody  to believe what i believe i do not feel the need to prove anything to anybody and as a person there are certain things in this world that i don't believe in so i never push my beliefs on any one else all i ask is have an open mind and don't judge me as i don't judge anyone .To me being spiritual is a state of mind it and it helps me to find peace i am now at one with me i like who  i am if asked i say who i am im not ashamed of who i am or what i do and that is a nice feeling to have and like i have said before i think we all have it in us to be spiritual to communicate and to see things we cannot explain i just feel we have to be open to experience it and as the song says i am what i am love and light 

Readings for friends

Do i like doing readings for my family and friends well i can tell you my answer is no not really and i have many reasons for this , i will always prefer doing a reading for a complete stranger someone i have never met and know nothing about then when spirit give me lovely validation i know and the person i am readings knows that there loved one is really there i am not saying when i do readings for friends that there loved ones are not there but the validation has to be better and of course this takes more energy fro me and spirit. When i am reading for a friend i always have in the back of my mind that i know this person and certain aspects of there life so i myself am wanting the validation to be something i would never know and this can be distracting when i am communicating with spirit on the other hand spirit can be quite good and while i am communicating what spirit is telling me i will be saying all sorts of things and they will not make any sense to me but will to the receiver so they will usually give me something that i just would.nit know even when reading for a friend . The hang up is really with me and not with spirit as a friend of course i will hear things about there lives and have experiences that i have shared with them so i am more aware in what i am saying and i can over think what spirit is saying to me and sometimes i will question what they are saying and what i have in my memory so because of my over thinking it becomes more energy draining for me and spirit because of course spirit has to work harder to get themselves heard ,of course life is not that simple and this shows that sometimes if a message need to be heard they will come through whether or not they are strangers or friends and of course i will always pass on the message but if this was a perfect world i would always just do my readings for people i have never met or know . And just to say to all my lovely good friends this doesn't mean i wouldn't ever not give a message to you if someone come through for you but its just what i prefer myself i always give messages to whoever they are for when lovely spirit joins me whether they are friends or not   love and light

Tuesday, 11 September 2012

Different Days

Today when i got up i knew today was going to be different and an active day , it started early in the morning when my cousin phoned and told me some wonderful news she has had a very hard time of late ill health and the loss of a loved one who she was very close to and living somewhere she hated with no prospect of ever been able to move out and then an earth angel has come along and been able to make a move possible to somewhere that is peaceful and to a house she loves ,then my phone rang and it was a friend who i said i would do a reading for her friend and she wanted to know house number but as i was talking with her i knew her friend was going to cancel as i was talking to her her mobile phone rang and it was her friend cancelling her reading because she had some difficult family problems to contend with i knew it was not the right time for her to receive a message .It has been a day of reflection as we remember the tragic day that happened across the water and all those who lost there life's on 9/11 and it is my best friends birthday who i have known for over 30 years as i was ordering her some flowers to be sent to her house i couldn't remember her address as i was trying to think my phone rang and yes it was my best friend so with a little teasing i managed to get her address and keep the surprise thank you kind spirits  , then in the afternoon a old friend came to visit who i have not seen for a long time {and yes mandy that's you if you are reading this ) after the strange day i had been having i knew i was seeing her for a reason and of course i has message for her from spirit  so its been a day for reflection a day of surprises and a day of spirit a different day    love and light
                                                            9-11  remembered never forgotten

Karma friend or foe ?

I believe we can create  our own karma if we keep goodness around us and think and act positive we will have good karma and yes i do believe in the old saying what goes around  comes around so we really don't have to do anything because Karma will always be there .When something or someone has been nasty and upset you don't waste any negative thoughts thinking if only i could do this if only i could that don't waste your energy doing something not nice or nasty because what ever has happened Karma will pay a visit i know that there have been times in my life when i have been in a bad place and i have had a lot of bad energy around me things in my life have kept on happening because of the Karma i have created for myself  i always say try and be nice even if someone is being horrible try and keep light in your heart and soul even when things seem dark because we need to keep the energy good around us to create a good Karma for us so is Karma a friend or foe well i believe its both its just how we how we choose to live our life's     love and light

Monday, 10 September 2012


this is the subject i am never keen to write about even writing or talking about negativity i feel attracts it and i like to keep my distance .Depending on what you believe depends on whether or not you believe in negativity i will always say if you believe in the good then you have to believe in the bad one does not come without the other my spiritual journey has been affected by negativity and i know it is out there i have been touched by it im not going to go into my story of how i was affected by negativity needless to say i have seen enough to strengthen my belief in spirituality for if it had not been for my belief in good i might have been a whole different person today. Negativity can come in all different ways and can affect us in all different ways depending where we are in our lives if we are low and vulnerable that is when negativity can take a hold when i talk about negativity im talking about a broad spectrum from how negative thoughts can affect our thought pattern how it can effect our judgements to how we act there is also the more known negativity i.e negative spirits and entities . Sometimes we can move into properties and inherit a negative spirit which i think i have touched on before if this happens we of course try to cleanse the place if this does.nt work then we need to maybe look elsewhere for a professional person to come and try to get rid of the negative for us  , but we can come across negativity energy anywhere we can be with someone who is very negative in life and if we spend enough time with this person it will start to impact on our own life .If you know someone who is always argumentative destructive in there own lives follow paths that lead them to negative outcomes and you have tried to and help them  and no matter what you have done they refuse you help what more can you do and if there negative attitude starts to affect you then you have to start thinking of cutting that negativity out of your life .Its the same with problems once we have one then another we get down and start to view everything with negative thoughts no matter how hard it is we do have to try to keep positive and try to focus on whats good in our lives are       . its the same when others have done things to us our first natural reaction is to get angry and retaliate back then it spirals and before we know it we  thinking a doing things we thought we could never do its hard to try and not let others anger and negativity affect us but if you remember that all it will do to you is put you in a bad place yourself if anger affects you from other people try doing what i do walk away breath the air in and the anger out  love and light

Friday, 7 September 2012

Messages for me !

I myself have be known  to go and see a medium, spiritual mediums etc often i had a conversation with a friend today that was interesting and i thought i would share . Why if i can communicate with spirit why do i have to visit others that can do the same if i can communicate with spirit then why not just talk to my loved ones myself,so the way i explained it is like this i rarely receive a message from my loved ones myself why is this well the way i see it is like this if my lovely mom came to visit me and we talked and i could do this often i would never let her go you see its not them who don't want to come and see me its me stopping them because i am emotionally attached there would not be a day when i would not want to see my mom talk to mom and have her round me and spirit just cant do that to hear my mom or any other loved one i have lost and to be able to talk with them would cause me so much grief again when i had to let them go and they understand this hence they wouldn't visit me in the first place . when i do my readings and give messages i have no emotional connection with the person i am reading for and the lovely person who is in spirit so i can give the message and stay focused and do what i have to do as a voice for spirit so i like many others visit mediums myself and i wouldn't have it any other way love and light

Thursday, 6 September 2012

Do i get scared

Another question i am always being asked is how do spirit come through and do i get scared , i explain spirit have all different ways of coming through like i have said before i am lucky as i can sense hear and sometimes see them but they will also use pictures or flashes of where they had been and even smells . Sometimes i can hear them really clear and other times the way i explain it is like them being on a bad telephone line and i can just about hear them and it takes a lot of energy to even pick up the slightest thing they are saying no matter how many times i ask them to step forward . I usually find the more they step forward and the more the connection we have that's when i get to see them i will start of hearing them then they will start to appear i must admit even though i have been seeing spirit since i was a small child i still jump when someone visits me and they suddenly appear and i have had times when i have been out and it has took me sometime to realise that i have been standing next to spirit for sometime because they appear the same as you or i ,a spiritual friend told me something years ago that i still find really intriguing and that is we walk among the dead and the way she explained was think of when we are out and we are in a really crowded place walking along doing our own thing getting on with our day well the saying is 10% of who we walk among are spirit but we just don't realise it .DO i ever get scared in all honesty not very often now when i was younger yes i did get scared because i was trying to deal with being different now i think would i be scared of these people if they were still here and no most of them i wouldn't and i see them no different from you and i of course every now and then i will get a negative energy or spirit and i will tell you how i deal with those in a later date but i know i am protected and i trust and believe in my protectors and guides so all in all no i really do not get scared i feel blessed to be able to communicate with these lovely people  love and light

please comment

To anyone reading these posts please leave me a comment i would love to know if you are enjoying reading these and  if at all useful love and light xx

Wednesday, 5 September 2012

when loved ones pass how long ?

I am always being asked how long is it before our loved ones come through that's like asking how long is a piece of string because like in life its always about the individual i believe and i stress its only what i believe that it all depends on any  number of things how they passed how they was in life etc some spirits can come through straight away last week for example i had someone who lost someone close to then the lady who had passed had lived to a good old age was independent and got on with things herself right up until a couple of weeks before she died then she had a stroke which took away all her right side and there was no chance of her regaining it she would have lost all her Independence and all her family new she would have hated that just before she died she turned her head to the right side(something she was unable to do) looked up to the ceiling and called out her late husbands name twice of course he had come to meet her to help her over and i believe for the last few minutes on earth she was healed ,when i was talking about this lady with a member of her family she came straight through even though she only passed hours before she was happy she was with her husband and in her words she had had a good life and most of all she was ready she wanted her family to know that .In this case she was ready and able to come through but sometimes people who have passed need time to adjust to come to terms with there passing to reunite with all those they have lost and loved and for them to learn how to build there energy so they are able to come through and of course to heal, so there is no given time on how long it will be but i do know that when the time is right for them and for us they will find a way of letting us know love and light


Sometimes people who are just finding their spirituality find that they have a block and wonder why, there can  be many reasons for this but i have found over the years while i have been doing this i have always had a block when things are happening in my life by a block i mean not being able to communicate with spirit or feeling spirit have left you . when things are happening in our own life and our energy's are being used to cope with everyday things and problems you will usually find this is when the block will occur of course spirit have never left you but you will be protected by your guides communicating with spirit can be very draining and takes a lot of energy from you and spirit, when we are ill or having to cope with things that are going on in our own lives our guides will protect us and block or keep back if you like spirit so we can build our energy back up. over the years i have found i have stopped doing my spiritual work when i have been going through stressful times myself and i have needed to concentrate on helping me and others around me .I am often asked how do i just switch off well sometimes i don't have a choice and my guides will make me switch off and other times it is my choice when i have to get on with my everyday life, but i also like to think that spirit know when and if its ok and will be just as respectful towards you and your situations as they would have done in life  love and light

Tuesday, 4 September 2012

Guides and our life's path

Today i have been thinking about the path we all walk which is life's path . Everyone of us will hit bumps twists and turns on this path and we will all deal with them differently , i know in the past i have fell many times as i have walked and sometimes it has been a struggle to get back up and carry on but i know that sometimes i have been picked up and carried by my earth angels as you have heard me talk about earth angels before how these are people who come into our life's for maybe a hour a week a month or for years but help us along and keep us going also i believe our guides and our loved ones and our angels will do the same thing .as i have gone along my path i have made mistakes like everyone else because not one of us is perfect the mistakes i have made some small some really huge have all been a learning curb for me and i always say to my children you will make mistakes in life and some will be huge you might hurt someones feelings you might regret what you say and what you do but the thing you must do is learn from them and try not to make them again .I believe the mistakes i have made in my life the big and the small ones have led me to be the person i am today all the time when going through these hard times i have asked my guides and loved ones and angels to help and they have always come through so no matter how alone we feel here on this earth the thing i say to everyone is always remember we are never alone if we ask and try to listen we will get help when we need it and we need to look for the signs our loved ones our angels and our guides will let us know they are there if we look so for everyone who is going through one of these bumps these twists or these turns just sit there quiet and speak to those we cannot see or feel because they will be there and they will listen each and everyone of us has a guide and that's is what they do guide us the best they can through the bumpy road of life its just a matter of trying to open up and listening to what they say love and light

Sunday, 2 September 2012


pets  are also really good at picking up and sensing spirit they will let you know straight away when they are picking up something i can only speak for dogs and cats  but i know my lovely dog picks up all things when im doing a reading i always have my dog in the room with me he is my sense i know if harvey is not sure about who has entered my space then i shouldn't be sure when im doing my readings harvey at first will circle and walk about once then if his happy he will lie down and go to sleep there has been a time when harvey has growled and barked and as silly as this sounds then i know not to let that spirit into my space i think again pets have no prejudice to what they see or hear all they know to do is protect love and light

Our pets and young children how they sense

The lovely things about babies and young children is as far as spirit is concerned they have no fear babies and young children i feel can see spirit and talk to them until they get to the age of knowing ,people often say to me my baby was gurgling and pointing to the ceiling  smiling and playing  i know my children all seen spirit from an early age . My eldest child had an imaginary friend from an early age he used to make me cook dinner for him by extra sweets for him the works one night i was busy in the kitchen when my son then aged three asked me for dindins for his friend  so i said to him perhaps your friend would like to go and have dinner with his mommy and daddy tonight so my son toddled off into the lounge then a few minutes later he was back and he said to me but he said you are his mommy, so that got me thinking i said whats you little friends name and my son said his alan mommy (alan being my spirit baby) i was shocked as we had not talked about alan freely in front of my son as he was only young so i said to my son doesn't alan want to go home to his mommy and daddy tonight so off my son toddled a few minutes later he came back and said alan said your his mommy and he lives in the bedroom with you what more could i say ..My daughter also had an imaginary friend who she played with argued with and fought over toys with again when she got to four he just disappeared then when she was in her late teens she came into my room in the middle of the night she said she had woken up and a young boy was sitting at the bottom of her bed she said she was to scared to move until he spoke he said don't be scared its only me your brother im just looking after you .so sometimes if you hear you children and babies cooing and laughing then they might just be talking to our loved ones  love and light xxx

Saturday, 1 September 2012

Just saying hello

Today was a special day for me i went to my moms grave to place some flowers and i tool my little grandchildren with me and as i stood there in the sunshine and watched as my little granddaughter picked daisy's and placed them in a vase and my little grandson played i was smiling then all of a sudden i felt my mom behind me watching the grandchildren and smiling with me as i walked away i felt what i thought was my hubby's hand patting and stroking my shoulder then i looked and seen he was holding my grandchildren hands and i knew it was my mom patting me and stroking my shoulder as she walked with me my mom my angel was with me today and i have not stopped smiling since love and light LOVE YOU MOM X